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Annie had a pathetic

You know, at you in general a habit to do everything straight away mother told and when you so do, you do not even manage to reflect.Annie had a pathetic look.But I can do nothing.Such I am she told.Children such as you a preogromny set mother told but to it it is possible to help.There is a way by means of which you can be changed.It is the truth?Annie was surprised.I can change?As it would be healthy if actually it was possible to change she thought.

This requirement

This requirement will remind the child that you feel for yourself a certain right that you are polite and will care further of yourself.Barbara, whether you will be so kind to clean kitchen?Den, whether you will be so kind to take care of a garden?Megen, whether you will be so kind to explain to me that you solved: to go to school or to pay the room and food?Joe, whether you will be so kind to feed a dog?Steve, whether you will be so kind to give me money to pay this phone bill?

Here it from

If the teacher wants to overcome these difficulties for me, let overcomes.It is not interesting to me any more.Here it from carrying.If the child tries to lift something very heavy, and the teacher decides to help it, often it leaves the subject in her hands also runs away away.There is enough praise, the help or even look to stop it or a prepyatstvo to vat its activities.Perhaps, it will sound strange, but such can occur even if the child will understand that behind him nablyu give.

Never! Among

To tell the kid that he is guilty of your divorce, means to charge it with excessive burden.It cannot be done.Never!Among small children also the phenomenon which psychologists call magic thinking meets.The belief is its cornerstone that thoughts and feelings can be realized.For example, the child who took offense at the parent for scolding can believe that his evil thoughts were the cause of that the parent offender stumbled on a ladder, got sick or left a family.

The similar

Observe the kid: whether well he chews, whether normally swallows food, whether is a lazy zhevun, whether not long holds food in a mouth behind a cheek, whether saliva when teeth are not cut through flow at it, whether it holds companies halfopen constantly.All these symptoms can speak about existence of neurologic violations or LORdiseases.The similar phenomena can slow down not only speech, but also general development of the child.It is better to address to the doctor and strictly to implement his recommendations.

It is impossible

Free you pine forest one of the highest of all mental processes.Only about the child who is deeply realizing the requirement in practice and development of spiritual life, it is possible really to tell that he chooses freely.It is impossible to speak about freedoms number a choice when the child is attracted at the same time vsevoz mozhny external incentives, and, without having will powers, it reag rut on everyone, tirelessly passing from one to another.It one of the most important distinctions which has to be able to do teacher.

Young parents

Ordinary problems: the daughter does not obey, runs away from the house.However surprising things are found in a subsoil of some ordinary families, and the most banal the child parental conflicts turn fatal, often hopeless problems which roots sit in the childhood of parents or maybe go to even deep water, depth of generations.Young parents and tenyearold daughter.At first sight it is possible to think that mother brought on consultation of two children, different in age.The woman tall, with big hands and feet, very loud voice and bright makeup, looks even more massive near the pale, colourless, slender husband.

And nevertheless

And nevertheless Mrs.continued to worry about that will be if there is this pregnancy: what it responsibility; that will be with Ted; that with it will make mother of the girl and t..It quite could present that each resident reads about it incident in the newspaper that call Ted the father that he has to marry on to the little girl and will never be able to graduate from school that it will have to to live all the life as the simple worker etc.Other problems, which also disturbed Mrs.

What to do? What

Yes you that?Whom did you bring?And gdemoya daughter?mother heaved a deep sigh.Our Asenka has an accurate nose, and at this is red.Our Asenka has cheerful eyes, and at they are angry.Probably, it is Asjka.What to do?What to do?Where to call?Where to look for our daughter?The girl, you did not see our Asenka?It such beautiful.Smiles, eats well, is not capricious.You did not see it?mother addressed to the girl.

That I did, Andryusha

And what you do here?I the Magic Dream, especially for boys!Prikletel today on this bed, to the boy, and here anybody, no.You do not know, where it?We after all, Children's Dreams, every night the new!And if he does not look at me today, so does not poksmotrit never.That I did, Andryusha was terrified, slightly own Magic Dream did not pass!Here that znakchit not in the bed to fill up!I now, wait!he cried to the Dream.Run laid down in the bed, on the pillow, strong closed eyes.

It very much

As Vanya learned to put on Based on Marina Mosina's fairy tale Once upon a time there was a boy by the name of Vanya.It very much lyukbit to walk with children in the yard.They thought out different interesting games, and to them was always very cheerful together.And still the girl Olya often came to play the yard.It had big beautiful blue eyes and a curly hair.It very much was pleasant to Vanya, and he wanted to make friends with it.

It happens

It happens to all children and they are ready to move away further all from the house and familiar routes in search of novel, neiskhozhenny places.Of course, to find such where the foot of the person did not go, they will hardly manage also it and it is not important, the main thing, their own foot for the first time there got.This useful desire: children learn to be guided in space, refresh the impressions, develop ability to adapt in another the unknown!to Wednesday.

We truly

Has to be, it something chu the close.You could not explain us it?Because, when we we try to describe this the most sublime of feelings, it an eye it zyvatsya by business hard.We truly can see an otr zheniye of words of Saint Pavel in a present civilization, because unless we cannot move the mountain and create even the big miracles?Unless we cannot speak in a whisper and to be usla shanny in all corners of Earth?And still without love all this it is possible.We created the enormous organizations, to feed and dress poor but if they are deprived of heart, that are similar to a drum sound which can be heard only because the drum is empty.

She very

Thanks to the progress in speech development, Pamela learned to express verbally some desires on occupations in the musical room, but not to impose the will inadequate means.She very accurately said: To want to play the piano to lay a plate so far, so, to choose a drum so far, a sound.Pamela still could not speak from the first person or communicate.During the third period of the development this little fairhaired girl learned to perceive, realize positively music, gained many skills by means of which could express itself creatively.

To the surprise, Annie

It stamped a paw.It is wrong it repeated.How to me to be now?Then, loudly snuffling, it raised a paw to the muzzle and rubbed eyes.To the surprise, Annie saw that a monster plachet.What with you?she asked.A silly question the monster angrily answered.With me, certainly, everything is all right.Simply I was just lit with a big awful magic protivomonstrovy lamp, I received the hardest shock, and then, in addition, still saw that you are not afraid of me at all.

After all nobody

It repeated and for the second day, and on the third.For the fourth day Masha came with the new sinenkky bicycle.All children rode it in turn and laughed.To them it was good and cheerful, and Vanya sat one in a big sandbox and missed.After all nobody wanted to play with it!But suddenly Mashenka saw Vanya, ran up, took him by hand, brought to the bicycle and told: Ride, how many you want, I am not sorry.It became a shame to Vanya with the acts.He understood that to be greedy and to offend children very badly.

It was amusing

To me really it is so good!Perfectly mother Endrea told.Now you can see how you open eyes, happily smile, and to you it is so good!.The Endrea opened eyes.It was amusing and very interesting she told.Annie opened eyes.To what it is healthy to fly on a magic carpet she told with delight and embraced the mother.To me it is really very good.I think that the forthcoming day will bring me only good news!Since a release of the first edition of this book musical therapy expanded the horizons and now is used in such different areas as work with conditionally sentenced offenders, or as a method of overcoming of a stress.

I will start

Parents tell the approximately following: I am invested by duties.I have to care of it.I have to be reconciled with it; he is my child.I will start leading own life when they become the independent.The same ideas are reflected in statements of children: parents are obliged to be reconciled with their behavior and to suffer everything that they get up, until then so far they it is not reached a certain age.Conversation, which recently carried out one of us with the yearold boy, illustrates this point of view.

It appears, vanillin

The tree, Apple, Bread, the Letter, the Wheel, the Arrow can tell us the mass of interesting things … We get also invisible, but significant, going straight in heart.These are smells of holidays.It appears, vanillin is good not only in pies, but also on the adult's hands.It pleases and calms at the same time.And here the gingerbread lodge can be painted, in the manner of Tom Sawyer's fence, color glaze with cinnamon.A thin skin of tangerines the most memorable spirits of the childhood.

However

We heard once as the police officer told parents: You are responsible for with what people your child loafs.However it also such point over which you have no direct and direct control and which directly does not influence your life.In our opinion, this point gives especially good opportunity in order that, having worked with it, to receive big freedom for itself and in that time to find mutual understanding points with the son or the daughter.We think that this point absolutely definitely belongs to the list of events of life child.

If the kid stammers

If you almost do not talk to the child, confine to words and short phrases if the kid is often provided to himself or to strangers even the most wonderful nurse is after all not mother, there is a real danger of emergence of a problem of speech development.If the kid stammers One of the most serious speech problems is stutter.As shows our twenty years' experience with children, in recent years stutter looked younger.Even more often parents of twothreeyearold children in whom halts, and the most real stutter with all its heavy manifestations are found not simply ask for the help.

It is correct: it is the third. And maybe, you should

He not very

But also there problems at it arose same, as well as at school Moscow.He not very well studies, even on English receives two though had language practice and speaks almost fluently.Shirks much and when it becomes known at home and trial begins, behaves always equally: keeps silent, promises to improve, seeks to leave as soon as possible the house and does not come back to spend the night.Spends the night in the neighbourhood on attics, the last time fell down in the elevator.Parents look for it, but is most often ineffectual; it changes places of spending the night, and friends do not give out it.

They speak

Unless does not carry out the farmer all the time, looking after plants and a stomach ny, and the scientist being engaged in the microscopes and a lens mi?The mankind begins with capture and destruction, and finish howls love and service by means of the reason.Children, which tore plants in a garden, now watch their growth, consider their leaves and measure height.They speak now not about the plant, and about this plant.This height and lyu bov are caused by new consciousness, given rise in their reason.

Unlike animals

In total, that it is necessary for it it is food, and anything else you will not help here.Guo the rule acts and in this case.It is severe Stew, kindness not to solve a problem.The person reasonable being, and it needs food for mind even more often more, than the physical.Unlike animals it has to build the behavior.If to direct the child on the way where he can to organize the behavior and to construct the mental life, everything will be good.Its problems will disappear, night nightmares will be gone, digestion is normalized, greed will cease.

The daughter

Perhaps, the father, so cruelly treating the daughter, revenges the wife.And maybe, he thus tries at last to compel it not to close before his nose a door to the room.The wife, avoiding scandals, at any cost trying to keep a family, so got used to hide the experiences and feelings that sometimes it seems to it: it in general lost ability something to feel.She forgot to show feelings absolutely.The daughter endures this her inability especially painfully.Here also everything turns out as on the written, newspaper cliche: that is called as peaceful coexistence, in practice can be war.

Because it is difficult

Sara often said that was on holding therapy.Because it is difficult for it to master abstract concepts, including concept about emotion, the girl seldom speaks about the experiences, apart from those cases when she sickens.She will better offer a subject for improvisation, for example: any dance, the person who falls asleep or cries, a thunder and a lightning.Sara matures.And that who works with the girl, it became difficult for family to distinguish autistichesky lines of her character of that usually call properties of awkward age.

Whether you supported

Whether you supported offenses of the child after their commission, concentrating on it negative attention: Abusing?Punishing?Lecturing?Crying?Testing unpleasant emotions: anger, fear, concern, frustration?Being upset?Frowning?Being anxious?Use this chapter for this purpose what to understand how further follows you: To use Yastatements when you say about something that you disturbs.To arrange the life so that to make it convenient and pleasant for itself, without encouraging thus others to steal from you, to abuse your kindness etc.

At least

etc.Here on test of some in detail sorted useful skills and ways to turn it into game.How to teach the child to handle a compass It is fine if you teach a mladsheklashka and the preschool child to elements of explaining the ground.At least according to the card and a compass.Our Earth round.Show it to the child on the globe there is no globe take a ball, show where there is a pole.And still where there is our country, and what it big and where in it there lives your family.

It is tremendous

Next day Annie told the mother as it operated the brain and the bladder in a dream.It is tremendous mother told.I am proud of you.Annie lit up.And what if I leave weak light in the hall that it is better for you to see the road to a toilet at night?mother offered.The good idea agreed Annie.There is one more idea mother told.Let's get a special calendar.Every morning we will look at your sheets and if the wet spot becomes less, than usually, you will receive zvezdochku.

The main

There is a big difference between tyranny is wild tator and tyranny of teachers because if the first can to use drastic measures structurally, in hands of the second the same measures can be only destructive.The main mistake to assume that will of the person obya zatelno it is necessary to break before it is able to obey, that is to accept and follow indications of another.If so to argue concerning intellectual training, it is advisable to destroy at first reason of the person, before to have opportunity to give it some knowledge.

With the first

It means that we have to be adjusted on, that to carry out the work in cooperation with the nature and under to be repaired to one of its laws saying that development about proceeds from experience of interaction with environment.With the first the step the child rises on more high step of experience.Watching it at this time, we mi HIM that it constantly aspire to even bigger nezavisa mo highway.He wants to do everything itself to transfer things, to put on and and to be pinched, at all not ~ because we it to it pobuzh en h I go porlvpstolt ~ e?

Bruises

Chapter THIRTY THREE MISFORTUNES, OR ACCIDENTS WHICH ARE NOT CASUAL You noticed such: with the child everything is normal, everything is safe, and suddenly a collapse.Bruises and cones, ridiculous injuries and that something worse and fall on it.And at times the impression as if the child himself runs into troubles is made.And after all really runs.Most often unconsciously, but he looks for and finds adventures to the own harm.Why?On the one hand, it seems everything is clear: technical progress created many new dangers to children.

Because

Actually can even seem that reason roofing felt to those is also engaged that directs their work.Because if people used the speech only for the transfer thoughts if their wisdom was put only into words, from last generations would not remain also a trace.Bla godarya to a hand, the companion of reason, there was a civilization.A hand the instrument of great gift which we inherit.Hands therefore have communication with spiritual life.And in most business, unless ancient art of chiromancy does not claim that the history of race is printed on a hand and that the hand is spiritual ipi in?

Besides, if you are faithful

Besides, if you are faithful to yourself, and one of your desires happy relationship with the husband, you show devotion and in relation to it, trying that its affairs went as it is possible better, and at all will not become to interfere with them.You will trust your spouse that he can to cope with the problems arising at it, doing it in own way.Unless parents are not obliged to set restriction?As I can do it to do if I am not going even to try to control that does child?

Work was difficult

Three months of cumulative efforts of the psychologist and the psychiatrist were required successfully to cope with this situation.Work was difficult as it was necessary to overcome mother's resistance all the time.She, it seems, could not but also agree with us: business serious, after all the girl got to reanimation three times.However it irritated her rather, than caused sympathy.On everything it was visible that, bringing the daughter into consultation, spending money for therapy, it only did that has to; experiences of the girl remained it deeply alien.

Even it is unclear, from

The nose fell, and braids puffed up in different directions, as firtree branches.The katyusha grudged for itself, and it began to cry.And still it was so a shame to it that it offended a bakbushka.Even it is unclear, from where at such little girl vzyaklos got down very much!Tears flew and flew.They prevratiklis to the small river!And these tears were such sincere repentance slezakm that simply washed away zazevavshuyusya Kaprizka on the street, directly in hands to the wizard searching for it.

And you knew

mother asked, having seen her face.I again incorrectly made homework Annie told.The teacher very much became angry about me.She told that I had to know answers and that next time I have to treat homework more seriously.And you knew answers?mother Annie asked.It is ridiculous Annie answered but when she showed them to me, I saw that really them knew.As you think: why so it turned out?mother asked.The teacher told that I, has to be, hurried when performing homework and did not let herself work think properly.

Still social

But life shows that these chrezvy Shyny measures will not be required further on an extent item oho infancies.Through a short period mother And the child can return from isolation and take part in and Russian cabbage soup of society.The child has other social problems, not p not, as at the adult.Still social inequality it was reflected in children exactly the opposite.As but PN paradoxically sounds if adults suffer in the environment < others, children suffer in the environment of the rich.

Musical

I talked to parents of children with autism much and is sure that those from them who read this book, learn at once among prepyatststviye which Ann and Mark, Helen and Simon, the problems well familiar him, including the pain and disappointment caused by attempts to cope with the autichny child, his brothers and sisters and bulky, slow bureaucratic machinery faced.Musical therapy cannot cure autism and decrease in intelligence mental handicap.But with its help the therapist can interact with the child in creation of music that softens negative behavior.

Minutes of a stress

We ask you not to lose the heads i.e.to hold before itself prospect and to remember, despite all stresses and failures, to what you actually aspire.Minutes of a stress keep calm and remember: to what you aspire,it is happier situation for you; and at the same time your child as more responsible and decent person.Keep positive idea of your child You could have a belief as if the child disturbs you simply because wants it or because by the nature it is lazy, it is dishonest, carefree, did not ripen or does not love you.

But, we will

Researches were conducted by two logical lines.Children measured distance from one subject to another, and in common with adults restored history of this subject, history of a fork and knife, dish and a jug … Any real history contains the sum of generations of a subject.It is possible to arrange PTA meeting, a meeting of things which will extraordinary fill space with old times and tradition.But, we will return on kitchen.There the whole geographical wanderings travel behind a carnation and spices, over a cup of tea and potatoes were played … Krom of usefulness of knowledge of ordinary subjects, the geography of all these things also gives the sum of opening, but an earth trifle not habitual now.

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  • You know, at you in general a habit to do everything straight away mother told and when you so do, you do not even manage to reflect.Annie had a pathetic look.But I can do nothing.Such I am she told.Children such as you a preogromny set mother told but to it it is possible to help.There is a way by means of which you can be changed.It is the truth?Annie was surprised.I can change?As it would be healthy if actually it was possible to change she thought.
  • This requirement will remind the child that you feel for yourself a certain right that you are polite and will care further of yourself.Barbara, whether you will be so kind to clean kitchen?Den, whether you will be so kind to take care of a garden?Megen, whether you will be so kind to explain to me that you solved: to go to school or to pay the room and food?Joe, whether you will be so kind to feed a dog?Steve, whether you will be so kind to give me money to pay this phone bill?
  • If the teacher wants to overcome these difficulties for me, let overcomes.It is not interesting to me any more.Here it from carrying.If the child tries to lift something very heavy, and the teacher decides to help it, often it leaves the subject in her hands also runs away away.There is enough praise, the help or even look to stop it or a prepyatstvo to vat its activities.Perhaps, it will sound strange, but such can occur even if the child will understand that behind him nablyu give.
  • To tell the kid that he is guilty of your divorce, means to charge it with excessive burden.It cannot be done.Never!Among small children also the phenomenon which psychologists call magic thinking meets.The belief is its cornerstone that thoughts and feelings can be realized.For example, the child who took offense at the parent for scolding can believe that his evil thoughts were the cause of that the parent offender stumbled on a ladder, got sick or left a family.
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