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Whether you supported

Whether you supported offenses of the child after their commission, concentrating on it negative attention: Abusing?

Punishing?

Lecturing?

Crying?

Testing unpleasant emotions: anger, fear, concern, frustration?

Being upset?

Frowning?

Being anxious?

Use this chapter for this purpose what to understand how further follows you: To use Yastatements when you say about something that you disturbs.

To arrange the life so that to make it convenient and pleasant for itself, without encouraging thus others to steal from you, to abuse your kindness etc.

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You know, at you in general a habit to do everything straight away mother told and when you so do, you do not even manage to reflect.Annie had a pathetic look.But I can do nothing.Such I am she told.Children such as you a preogromny set mother told but to it it is possible to help.There is a way by means of which you can be changed.It is the truth?Annie was surprised.I can change?As it would be healthy if actually it was possible to change she thought.

This requirement will remind the child that you feel for yourself a certain right that you are polite and will care further of yourself.Barbara, whether you will be so kind to clean kitchen?Den, whether you will be so kind to take care of a garden?Megen, whether you will be so kind to explain to me that you solved: to go to school or to pay the room and food?Joe, whether you will be so kind to feed a dog?Steve, whether you will be so kind to give me money to pay this phone bill?

If the teacher wants to overcome these difficulties for me, let overcomes.It is not interesting to me any more.Here it from carrying.If the child tries to lift something very heavy, and the teacher decides to help it, often it leaves the subject in her hands also runs away away.There is enough praise, the help or even look to stop it or a prepyatstvo to vat its activities.Perhaps, it will sound strange, but such can occur even if the child will understand that behind him nablyu give.

To tell the kid that he is guilty of your divorce, means to charge it with excessive burden.It cannot be done.Never!Among small children also the phenomenon which psychologists call magic thinking meets.The belief is its cornerstone that thoughts and feelings can be realized.For example, the child who took offense at the parent for scolding can believe that his evil thoughts were the cause of that the parent offender stumbled on a ladder, got sick or left a family.