I will start
Parents tell the approximately following: I am invested by duties.
I have to care of it.
I have to be reconciled with it; he is my child.
I will start leading own life when they become the independent.
The same ideas are reflected in statements of children: parents are obliged to be reconciled with their behavior and to suffer everything that they get up, until then so far they it is not reached a certain age.
Conversation, which recently carried out one of us with the yearold boy, illustrates this point of view..